Have you been hurt before? Yes, i can say that 99% of people in world would have been before. Some of the "people" knew that it would be hurting by doing something, why must you do so. It can be say, action, love, and etc. You had been hurt before and you knew the pain right? Don't you? Then why must you go and hurt people's heart? So everyone feels great when you are the one who was hurt? Obviously, no one likes it. Which dumbo like sia? Haha, i looks like im posting this to scold people, actually not urh, no specific people.
Ways of examples by getting hurt:
LOVE
Break promise, having affair with another, cheat feeling, toying, no trust, etc.
WORDS
Insulting, when you know what you gonna say is wrong, you still say it out. Dirty comments, scold.
ACTIONS
Physical contact : Rape, bully, beat,backstab...etc.
These are some of my examples, because i had experience some of them before. And your self eestem would be damn low until you going to reach hell. Really, guarantee. x,x They were fucking hurting. Every single words you said, please think before you say them. Even 1 word can goes in a person's heart forever. Tried before? Even like you comment a girl "ugly" , you just say without using your brains? What if people say you ugly meanly? Do you feel good? -.- No? Yes? Maybe? Obviously again, NO correct? You have feelings, why not others. Heard of backstabbing? It is common among friends. Yeah, i don'tknow weather i had been backstabbed again and lose a goodfriend. Not confirm, but if it is, is that brainless person already. Backstab fun urh? People getting the wrong idea of you, song bo? Make people lose friends, very cool is it? You make people's family break la? WTF. No life people would do that.... haish, pathetic peoples. -.- No matter how hard you tried to mend the wrong you did to that person no matter by words or actions, you can't. really you can't. If the person forgave you with a smile, do you think the scar on her/his heart can disappear so easily? It takes time and maybe forever .There was a story i wanna share, its by my chinese teacher that teached me when i was Pri 6.
Basically why she tells, when i was Pri6, my classmates, 2 boys, was fighting, quarelling. What happened was, one disturb one then fight with words. One of the 2s, quarrel until drag his mother in, saying what she's a xxxxxx, most of you know luh. So smart ... Yea letter "P" word, its not nice to say that. It means alot right? They keep suan each other. Teacher dulan, and stopped them. Told us a short story :
There was a little boy, he had a very bad temper. His father wanted to change him so he gave him a sharp penknife. He told him that whenever he was angry and had scolded someone, just use it and cut the bark of a big tree in his garden. Keep cutting and cutting everytime he got angry. After years, he got tired with his stubbon-ess, his strenghth and everything. Thats the time his father came to him and said," son, look at the scars you created on the tree, until now, the scars were still there, do you think you can remove them?" Of cause, he can't. He then understand that every words he said, can hurt one another's heart, and it can be stained forever just like the tree.
I hope you understand me.... Cos i forgot some part of the story lahs. I think some of you had heard before right? Main point was, hurting people is not fun, ugly/pretty,handsome , smart/stupid , normal/abnormal, thin/fat , humans do have feelings. They were not robot for you to stab. My heart had been hurt for alot of times already. Do you even care? -.- No matters is friends, enermies , stead, parents/siblings... once you hurt, means hurt.

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